How Peak Performers Turn Work Into Play

The Gamer’s Edge: You don’t need more discipline—just a different perspective

What if progress on the things that mattered most were easy?

Let’s be honest. Most people don’t have a motivation problem.

They have a follow-through problem.

They commit to a goal. They start strong.

But within a few weeks, the momentum fades.

Life gets in the way.

They miss a day. Then another.

Frustration creeps in:

“Not again! Why can’t I just be consistent?”

“I know what to do, so why am I not doing it?”

We’ve all been there—when ambition turns into procrastination, guilt, and doubt.

But the pain runs deeper than a few missed days.

It’s a pattern of behaviour that impacts your definition of self—your identity:

“Maybe I’m not the kind of person who can do this...”

You trust yourself a little less than before.

You start to doubt whether you can close the gap between where you are and your dreams.

This is dangerous.

If you don’t stop this, you’ll start settling for less than you could be.

In last week’s letter, we covered how to reclaim momentum with deep work in the morning on your Most Important Thing.

Getting started is always a big victory.

And at the same time, it’s only your first “battle”.

What comes after—sustaining that momentum is even more challenging.**

This is where most people fall off because they lack a reliable system to make follow-through easier.

Life will test you.

Motivation will fluctuate.

But with the right mindset, showing up becomes easier, more enjoyable, and sustainable.

Success is 95% not quitting when it gets uncomfortable, lonely, and/or boring.

The biggest threat to your momentum isn’t external.

It’s mental.

The good news? This is highly predictable.

Once you see this blind spot, you can prepare for it and neutralize it.

Forwarned is forarmed.

New Level, New Devil

Success is 80% mindset, 20% tactics.

The wrong mindset will lower your execution—and can prevent you from acting altogether.

Most people don’t fail because they’re lazy.

They fail because they expect smooth sailing after overcoming the inertia of starting.

So when life throws a setback—and it will—they’re caught off guard.

To add insult to injury, we’re hardwired to avoid discomfort and conserve energy.

But here’s the truth:

Life is a series of challenges; challenges are the only certainty in life.

New level, new devil.

Every victory is followed by a next-level challenge.

If you resist this reality, you “suffer” twice.

Once, from the challenge itself.

And again, from the resistance you created by wishing it were not so.

“This shouldn’t be so hard.”

“Why me?”

“I don’t feel like it.”

Resisting the work with negative self-talk creates unnecessary mental friction.

And traps you in a victim mindset—that distracts you from actually focusing on solving the problem. It causes you to give your power away.

“We suffer more in imagination than in reality.” — Seneca, Letters to Lucilius

Your mind is the ultimate reality-creating engine.

How you perceive things shapes your emotions—and your actions.

When the mind becomes your enemy, the effort gets magnified.

Complaining changes nothing.

It only delays action.

Fighting mind-created friction drains more energy than the initial challenge ever would.

Nothing could be more self-defeating.

So let’s explore a more effective way to meet challenges.

Resist Nothing

What if you replaced ‘expecting it to be easy’…

With ‘enjoying the challenge’ instead?

Acceptance is the first step.

In The Road Less Traveled, Scott Peck opens with:

“Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths... Once we truly see this truth, we transcend it… Once we truly understand and accept it—then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters.”

This reflects the foundational Stoic idea of Amor Fati—loving your fate.

Not just accepting it. Loving it. No matter what.

Because resistance is the real enemy.

Not the challenge itself.

“Resist nothing—only then can you be free.” — Altered Carbon Series

As humans, our greatest power is adaptability.

And that begins with two moves:

  1. Perspective. Choose to embrace challenges. Resistance leads to resentment, avoidance, or passivity. Acceptance unlocks growth and momentum.

  2. Take action. There is no such thing as failure, unless you fail to act. When you act, there are only two outcomes: you either win or you learn.

The fact that you got started is a victory.

You gained experience.

Now, you get the privilege to move on to the next level.

You don’t need it to be easy.

As Bruce Lee said:

Do not pray for easy lives. Pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.

Own your power.

Embrace the challenge.

And enjoy it!

As David Goggins says:

“Become comfortable being very damn uncomfortable.”

For embedded inside each challenge is a most precious gift: the opportunity to grow and unleash your true inner strength.

Challenges are “forcing functions” that push you beyond your limit and trigger that glorious adaptation response that makes humans the apex species on this planet.

Resisting what is wastes energy, leads to frustration, and strips you of your power.

Meet reality with presence, acceptance, and a “bring it on” smile, instead of protest.

Let’s talk about how to do this easily.

Turn Work Into Play: The Gamer’s Winning Mindset

“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” — Wayne Dyer

The ability to reframe challenges is literally magic.

Marcus Aurelius put it best:

“Our actions may be impeded… but there can be no impeding our intentions or dispositions. Because we can accommodate and adapt. The mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting. The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”

Your mindset creates your experience.

And there is no better mindset than viewing life like a child playing a video game.

(If you’ve never played video games, just think back to your favourite games as a kid—it’s the same idea).

In games, obstacles aren’t frustrating—they’re expected.

It’s what makes the game worth playing.

When you view life as a video game, problems become quests.

Challenges become fun and exciting, instead of daunting.

Obstacles become opportunities to gain XP (experience points) and level up.

Turning work (effort) into play is the geatest life hack. Viewing life as a game of increasingly meaningful and complex quests, provides you with endless opportunities to grow and experience life more fully.

You start to look at problems with curiosity, instead of dread.

Kids naturally do this.

They face hard things with a mix of wonder and play.

They fall, get back up, and keep exploring.

This is what makes kids so resilient.

Through this lens, progress becomes addictive.

And life becomes more fulfilling.

So…

Ready, Player One? 👊

Next Steps

In the next article in this Habit-Building Series, we’ll troubleshoot a key blind spot that sabotages your follow-through: the Myth of the Solo Hero.

For now:

  1. Start experimenting with viewing life through the ‘video game’ lens. It will help you turn obstacles into growth, show up like clockwork, and enjoy the journey more.

  2. Observe how kids play games and embrace challenges. They have so much to teach us. I’ve personally learned so much from my niece and nephew.

  3. Comment below with your key takeaway.

  4. Share this article with someone who can benefit from it.

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Let’s be all we can be!

Ovi

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